Vicki Irvin-High Road Is Better!-Maryland Real Estate Investing
I just got through talking to a good friend about a situation that was bothering her. She called me upset about a situation with some friends and wanted to know how to handle it. My advise was simpleâ€¦.Take the high road.
It is always bothersome when people deliberately do things to hurt or harm you. But instead of spending energy trying to hurt them back, I say kill them with kindness. Unfortunately you will always be a victim of envy or jealousy and there is nothing you can do about that. Some people just have mean spirits and some donâ€™t even realize the negative energy they are putting on you, they honestly donâ€™t know any better. But if you get angry and spend time trying to get back at them, you have only allowed them to bring you down to their level, a place you know that you are far above. And I know this is easier said than done, because I too struggle with these things all the time. But I am naturally not a mean person, so for me to go there is taking me out of my character and that is giving someone way too much power. I am amazed at the things humans do to each other, but I am no longer surprised. Some people have class and others do not.
And if you ever get a chance to talk to the person who is hurting you, they are just vulnerable people who are probably victims of a bad experience and their only way of handling it, is to spread that on to others. Most of the time they are going through a bad situation, so try not to take it personal. Life is both too short and too long to get caught up in such trivial things. And trust me when I say that you will be rewarded for taking the high road and most of all, you will remain the classy person that you are.
So if you have been a victim of friends or family who may not be as supportive as you wish, that is okay. You know that you have a goal in mind and you know what you set out to do. Donâ€™t get sidetracked trying to fight back, that energy can be better spent bringing you closer to your destiny.
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